Can I get paid for caregiving my boyfriend?

He can certainly pay you. But unless he’s on medi-cal and qualifies both medically and financially for in-home support services (IHSS), there’s no state program that will pay you.

Check out this AgingCare article:

https://www.agingcare.com/articles/how-to-get-paid-for-being-a-caregiver-135476.htm

You can find lots more relevant information by tapping/clicking the Paying for Care link below your question.