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rfran517 Asked October 2019

What should I do if my mom is having hallucinations?

So my 63 year old mom has been having hallucinations. I came to NYC to visit them and at 1 am she woke me up screaming for my (deceased) grandmother to come back. She says she saw her in a mist and she was trying to tell her something. My dad said this has happened a few times. My mom was so sure and was upset when I initially didn’t believe her. I am at a loss of what to do. I am only 21 and am very scared about this. My mom hasn't been diagnosed with any age related degeneration. Please help! Should I bring her to a doctor? What should I do and what do her hallucinations mean?

lealonnie1 Oct 2019
Sounds like a recurrent dream rather than a 'hallucination', to me. I've had lots of very vivid dreams in my lifetime, and so has my daughter, where we're convinced something is real when it isn't. It takes time to wake us up, we sleep walk, try to leave the house, all sorts of things. Are you able to calm your mom down after the 1 am episodes? Does she seem okay afterward?

Naturally, your mom needs to be checked by her doctor for underlying medical conditions as yet to be diagnosed, but I would not immediately jump to horrible conclusions. Sleep disturbances can mimic all sorts of awful diseases.

Best of luck!!

calicokat Oct 2019
My advice echos freqflyer - get her checked for a Urinary Tract Infection.

When my MIL has one she is paranoid, combative and hallucinates. When we see "crazy" behavior from her, our first action is to get a UTI test, and usually it's positive. Once the infection clears, she's back to her normal self.

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freqflyer Oct 2019
rfran, take your Mom to her primary doctor and have them run a test for an Urinary Tract Infection. Such an infection in someone older can cause all sorts of different issues, hallucinations being one of them. The infection can be treated with antibiotics.

Ahmijoy Oct 2019
Mom absolutely needs to go to her doctor. There could be many reasons why this is happening and it sounds like it wasn’t just a one-time thing. I wouldn’t even try to guess what’s going on with her.

Have your father make an ASAP and get her in. Come back and let us know how she’s doing.

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