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OnlyForNow Asked May 2018

Tips to get nursing home care, how should we proceed?

Hello, My father in law is 90 and really needs round the clock care. He lives with his ex-wife out of convenience, but she is unwilling to care for him anymore. She's 85 and lacks the strength as well. He is dual eligible and I think we can get a home health aide via MLTC, but the ex-wife doesn't want a stranger in the house. We need some help figuring out how best to proceed so that he can get admitted into a nursing home so that he gets the care that he needs. I should mention that our financial situation means we are relying on Medicare and Medicaid to fully cover the costs. Thanks for anything you can share.

OnlyForNow May 2018
Thanks for that tip. We've been told that there's up to a 3 year wait at the home we wanted! Others have said that if he gets admitted to a hospital for 3+ days, that it's a "way in". We were hoping for something less drastic.

Ahmijoy May 2018
Begin touring facilities in your area that accept Medicaid. Call prospective facilities first to make sure they do. When my mom went into a nursing home, I relied on the financial department at the home to apply for Medicaid. It took about three months for her to be approved, during which time she was self-pay.

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