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Lynn123 Asked April 2017

May I sign my elderly mother's checks for her?

My 95-year-old mother recently finds it impossible to sign her name. She has problems with "executive function" and arthritis. She understands what she is signing, but can't execute the signature. For a long time I've been writing her checks for her to sign, but she would sign them (barely legibly and with great difficulty). But now she can't focus on the activity long enough to complete it. Is it OK for me to sign her name, and then annotate it underneath (by [my name] POA). She only writes 1-2 checks per month, one of which is to me to reimburse me for her expenses in the previous month. She lives with me, in Maryland; and we have always maintained separate finances; I have her durable POA. (I did add her name to my checking account years ago before I retired, but only as a convenience, so she could pay service people while I was at work; all the funds are my own. My name is not on her checking account, which is where her Social Security deposit--her only income-- and automatic Medigap payment are made).

pamzimmrrt Apr 2017
I have POA for my mom, and I have been signing her checks with my name and POA for years, with no problems. I am on her accounts as co owner, but I still add POA.

cwillie Apr 2017
Who writes cheques anymore? My mom's bills were all direct withdrawal years ago, and all her incoming money is direct deposit. The odd check that does come in for her is accepted at the bank without endorsement as long as it is being deposited into her account.

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Sunnygirl1 Apr 2017
I'd talk to a professional like an attorney. Signing someone else's name, even in the situation you are describing, could have negative implications. I'd be very hesitant and see if it's legal in your state. There are proper ways to sign as POA. I'd ask the attorney how to do that, as well.

Also, you would need to become Representative Payee to handle funds from Social Security. I'd look into that as well.

I'd look into the bank account that you put her name that is acutally your account. The reason is that if she ever has to apply for assistance, they will request documentation for all bank accounts that  her name has appeared. I'd imagine you'd have to explain what happened, but, it could cause some issues.

notrydoyoda Apr 2017
You only sign your name and POA.

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