Best Cities to live in for jobs/schools and healthcare for kids? Any live in places besides shelters with a family?

Hmm wasn't sure where to post this? But as you all know, I have had enough to handle I have no future here financially, and Im living on a road to nowhere.Literally.

I will be 40 in no time with no savings for future retirement or healthcare/living expenses, need to start. My health is also going down hill, so I need to make a sudden stop and go in a better direction.

So, if anyone has some ideas( I have gotten some here and thank so much, I am looking into them!!!) I need a place where my chances are highest to get a job where Id move, good schools and health care for us esp my kids. Where I have applied I haven't heard back! Everyone has their opinions what place may be the best( no you dont have to live there, just stuff you read, friends or family from there)

Thanks!!!!