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kimbojonas Asked November 2014

I care for my stepfather who has Parkinson's and dementia. Recovery services is going to incarcerate me for not paying child support. What do I do?

im going to be incarcerated for not paying child support because i am a full time caregiver

JessieBelle Nov 2014
kimbo, your child is your responsibility. It is nice that you help your father, but your child comes first. I'm sorry, but you can't opt out of child support to take care of a parent. Your child depends on that money.

freqflyer Nov 2014
One suggestion is to place step-dad into assistant living so that you can return to the paying workforce. It would be better for your own self-worth and for your sanity. Caring for an elder 24/7 can be terribly draining and very stressful.

Unfortunately your step-dad's condition is only going to get worse, so why not help him move now while he can still learn his way around the facilities and while he can gain new friendships with the others at the facility. Elders enjoy being around people of their own age group as they have a lot in common.

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