Can I manage my Moms Aid and Attendance benefits?

If you mean by "managed", just making sure the money goes where it has to go..no, it isn't hard. The money will be deposited in their account. In the case of my mother, I'm her power of attorney. I write her checks..specifically the one to her assisted living facility.

Has anyone on here managed them? How complicated is it?

You can only use them for the purpose specified in the award.