If my caregiver is on Disability, will she disqualify herself with these payments from my Aid and Attendance?

That's a question she needs to ask her disability social worker. It would depend on why she is disabled (her physical condition) and how much money she is allowed to make. She'd definitely need to report the money so she should go through the right channels. If she's basically providing you with company and she doesn't make too much it may be okay. She needs to check it out.
Good luck to you both,
Carol

Yes she will. If she is getting SSDI and tries to collect A&A, she will lose the SSDI.