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Shortfly42 Asked May 2011

Can I be held responsible if my sister leaves my dad with people we don’t know to care for him?

We dont know cpr,I really dont know alot about medications he is takeing,he takes more than he should sometimes on his meds and gets loopy-she does not seem to care about our insicurities/Im not a nurse,but I love my father and want to know if she can do this!she is getting paid by the state.Can we be held resposiable if something happens?

EXPERT Carol Bradley Bursack, CDSGF May 2011
If she is getting paid by the state to care for him, then she should be caring for him. Yes, she needs a break, but then he people who take over should know the basics of the care he needs. You could take CPR training, and she should leave written instructions about medications, but she shouldn't be gone long if she is being paid. The state likely has rules about this so you may want to check into that.
Carol

Barbara62 May 2011
There are respite care services. You just have to search online or call your community center about this. But I strongly agree with MindingOurElders, it wouldn't hurt if you train for CPR.

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Eddie May 2011
42:

Sounds like you care more about him than she does. That being the case, have a chat with her and let her know how leaving him with strangers who don't know their a__ from a hole in the wall affects you. Also, tell her you're interested in free trainings (I'm sure there's a few in your area) so you can both share the responsibility of caring for Dad. ... Who knows? You just might become his primary caregiver. Good luck.

-- ED

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