My mother has been awarded a small amount by the VA for Aid and Attendance, and she has appointed me as her Fiduciary and as a result there is a meeting scheduled at our home. The list of items that are being requested is larger than that being requested by Medicaid. What should I expect in this meeting? How did you handle when some of the expenses came out of your own account, and do they expect these statements to reconcile to the Fund Usage Agreement, when in fact some items were paid with cash? Would appreciate all and any feedback and thanks!