Mom has been getting up several times at night to go pee but she barely goes at all. She has end stage rheumatoid arthritis plus mild to moderate dementia. She needs help with everything since she barely has any strength left. This leaves us caregivers very exhausted. I think she might be anxious about wetting the bed as she did once so she gets up every time she feels anything. She wont' wear depends and my dad wants to get her a sedative so she just sleeps better and wont' have to keep getting up. I've read that sedatives in the elderly are kind of hit and miss and they often have adverse side effects. Has anyone had experience with any particular one? Thanks.