I am the primary caregiver for both parents who both have different forms of dementia. Their behavior ranges from kind and thankful to rude and selfish. My children witness this so I try to correct it or just tell them I dont like their choice. I am met with more rudeness. For example, I often have to remind parents to wash their hands coming out of the bathroom, which evokes their anger since they are adults after all. Or, that it is important to be patient and wait when my parents are so demanding for their drink NOW or their TV remote NOW or assist me NOW. How do I teach proper skills to children when there is not consistency for everyone in the house?