OMG! My 90 YO mother just put some medicated pain cream on her hip and it's burning my eyes and making my eyes tear up and oh what a headache. I'm ready to leave the house. Is there anything else this stubborn old lady can use? And then she doesn't wash her hands very good. Should I throw it away and get something else? She probably would know the difference since she has dementia. I know it helps, but it sure doesn't help me. HELP!