My sweet poor father had clots removed in a surgery and now has an infection causing severe continuance of fecal incontinence. Due to some drama involving my mother who suffers from vision loss, I received a call and had to come home without going to the store for depends for dad after work. My father has soiled himself and is sitting in the soiled clothes in his rocking chair, and he won't talk to me. He can't go into the shower due to his surgery healing.
I just want to get him clean and comfortable, but this is my first time, and despite my effort, if I can't hold my breath, I wretch and convulse as if I will vomit.