In the morning, she is very agitated, with me and has her mind set that i,m trying to put her in a nursing home. I love her and don"t want her in a nursing home. at that time she also also accuses me of being mean and unloveing. It hurts my feelings. How can i take this without getting angry or hurt? what is my best plan of action? she is very persistant with argueing and sharp with the tounge!