My dad is 86. He was healthy and helping on the farm 2 years ago. He got one small thing after another and gradually went down hill in his walking skills. He now live in a group home next to his residence and my mother 82 and me and my sibling visit him daily. He has some sun downers but usually is pretty sharp. He asked me today to not to step in and I wasnt sure wha that meant but when going inside and talking to the caregiver I found he refused his medication. How can i support him as he makes this decision when I will miss him terrribly and it will be very difficult to watch him die as I know it isn't easy because it alsmost happen a few months ago after he was pourly treated in another home. Watching him not be able to drink and not eat was heartwrenching.