My brother has extreme wounds on his legs that cause him excruciating pain. He will not keep the bandages on. Now the nursing home is sending him to the wound clinic. The results are amazing, but John still won't keep the wraps on. He has been in this condition for 4 years. My question is, is it appropriate to scold him? I am not sure he understands once the pain starts and he rips off the dressings and digs into the wounds. I am at a loss to help him.