Example: freezing in the winter or getting hit by a car, or causing an accident because he was wondering around near the road or trying to hitchhike. All of which we’ve caught him doing/almost doing. We can’t afford to put him in a nursing home or hire a home nurse. We make sure that he has a family member with him as often as we can throughout the day, especially while we’re gone at work. But we all still have to sleep. I love my husband dearly, and his father as well, and want to stand by their sides through this sh**storm, but am also not looking to end up in jail.