Diaper laundry.

Try searching online for a service local to you by typing in Diaper Service, or Laundry Service.
There are some diaper services listed in my area, but I don't know if they return what you give them - it sounds like they trade your dirty for fresh clean ones. But you could ask.

I can relate to your overwhelming laundry. My husband is in disposable diapers and I still do at least a load or two a day - bedding, bed pads, clothing, blankets,...

If you can't find a laundry service to pick up and deliver fresh, clean, folded diapers, maybe you could hire an attendant aide from a local home care company to come a couple days a week and wash, dry, fold and put away for you.

You can check your local cleaning services, some maid services provide this, some home health agencies can provide or pay people to come into your home and provide similar services.

Try Happy Nest laundry service.

If your incontinence is due to bladder issue, have you considered having a Superpelvic Catheter implant? Talk to your Urologist; it is covered by Medicare. It is a tube that is inserted directly into the bladder and drains urine into a plastic bag strapped to your leg that you need to empty periodically thorough out the day. At nighttime you change to a larger bag that lasts till morning. The only downside is that you'll need to have go the Urologist's office change the catheter once a month to insure against infections.

Nancy80

Adult cloth diaper services provide weekly delivery of clean, absorbent cloth diapers, along with eco-friendly cleaning services to manage incontinence comfortably. Options like Cloth Hero offer weekly deliveries (roughly $130/month) with extras like wipes. Specialized products are also available through providers like EcoAble for special needs. 

Key Aspects of Adult Cloth Diaper Services:
Service Offerings: Weekly delivery, pickup, and industrial cleaning of cloth diapers, often including reusable wipes and boosters/doublers.
Costs: Services can range, with specialized options like the Real Cloth Diaper Company offering options around $130-$170/month.
Convenience: Designed to eliminate the need for home laundering, making cloth use feasible for those with limited mobility.
Variety: Products range from traditional prefold diapers to modern pocket and all-in-one diapers.
Locations: Regional services exist, such as Bum Baby Bum serving Colorado's Front Range, and others in the Cincinnati, Dayton, and Louisville areas. 

For purchasing adult cloth diapers directly, providers include LL Medico and Rearz. 

My Aunt used to use a diaper service 60 yrs ago. Looks like they still provide the service. You will need to do a search in your area.

Why don't you try something like these? I have bought the male version for a family member. I have seen other brands advertised as well.

https://www.weareverincontinence.com/