A lot of parents don’t want to listen to their adult children .
If Dad has dementia this won’t change much if at all . I see you have here , he’s incontinent . If that is part of the issue and he won’t listen to you at home , then it may be time to place Dad in a facility . Incontinence plus being uncooperative is often the game over for at home care .
Parents will not listen to advise. My daddy had a will of his own and unless I was right there to do it for him or talk him through it, the job did not get done or the words I said fell on deaf ears. I finally had to take him to a facility and I told him that until he could do A, B, C and the doctor released him from the "hospital" he had to stay. He never got better because that is just how it happens.
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If Dad has dementia this won’t change much if at all . I see you have here , he’s incontinent . If that is part of the issue and he won’t listen to you at home , then it may be time to place Dad in a facility . Incontinence plus being uncooperative is often the game over for at home care .
Parents don't listen to us because we are just their kids, and what do we know?
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