She wets the bed, falls occasionally, never bathes. No money. Can I get help?

We really do need more information, like:

- who is she to you?
- are you her PoA? Is anyone?
- where is she currently living: in your home or hers? Are you living with her?
- what is her state of residence?
- what help have you tried to find so far and what was the outcome?
- does she have any medical diagnosis: dementia/memory loss, diabetes, obesity, COPD, etc.

Mammajae, who is "she"? What are her health issues? Do you live with her or does she live with you?

More information, plus filling out the profile page, would help us a lot of giving you answers :)

It sounds like she is the one that needs help. Probably more help than one person can volunteer.

Maybe this will be a good place to start:

https://www.agingcare.com/topics/133/paying-for-care