Where to get help for purchase of a stairlift for my 75 year old disabled wife?

Http:\\www.acornstairlift.com

it is out of pocket..not covered by insurance

Try your local county Department of Aging and Disability or what ever name it goes by where you live.

I know the one where I live has a list of charities and community service organizations that offer grants and other assistance for things such as what you need for your wife.

Mobility. com has some helpful suggestions for where to find funding for it. I have never been through the process but it's my understanding that medicare will not fund it. Here's a link I found online, = https://101mobility.com/blog/how-to-find-stair-lift-funding/