I need more help with caring for my disabled daughter. She is 57 and I am 76 with Arthritis. Where can I get help?

Your daughter most likely needs a group home because it sounds like she is developmental disabilities. You are 76 and eventually she will be placed in one when you pass away. Someone I know has autism because his 65 year old father couldn't take care of him because of his tantrums. The father knew that a group home was inevitable. His two daughters traveled a lot due their jobs and were not willing to take care of somebody who is an adult but with the intellectual and emotional capacity of a 10 year old.

Grannyleigh- can you give a bit more information? What is the level of your daughters disability and care needs? Physical? Mental?

A little more information will help to get you better suggestions.