Other than adult diapers, what other resources are available for those with the condition that's "a difficult time deciding when to drop sh*t?"

There is a company called Cheap Chux. I have ordered from them for years now and they are wonderful. You might give them a call and they can send out some samples to try. I know there are liners available to help with poo as I have used them also. Hope this helps.

Depends, Prevails, Covidens, Tena, and many others are sized by S, M, L, XL and various absorbency are available. You may have to experiment with an assortment. Definitely NOT cloth, whooooeeeeee!