My mother shows signs of Alzheimer's and dementia. Her doctors appointment for diagnosis is in may. Where do we start to get help?

Why do you say she shows sign of Dem/Alz. Can you give us a little background? moms age, do you have sibblings, children, husband, father,

Seems like you're going in the right direction with the doctor's appt. though. Do you mean to prepare yourself for what will take place?

Rest assured you've come to the right place dear. There are many here who can help you.