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Bettysgroup Asked March 4, 2025

Dreams as a new symptom.

My mom was diagnosed with Vascular Dementia four years ago. She was napping today and when she woke up she called 911. She told the dispatcher that she was bleeding from her rectum. She was yelling at my sister saying that she had told her that she needed medical help and that my sister ignored her. She hadn't said anything before she made the call. When help arrived she used the toilet and there was no sign of rectal bleeding. This behavior is new and scary. Has anyone else had this experience? How do you handle it? What might cause it?

JoAnn29 Mar 5, 2025
The brain can no longer differentiate between dreams, TV and reality.

I walked into my Moms room one day and she told me the Doctor wanted to talk to me. It was Dick Van Dyke on Diagnosis Murder. I did say "Mom thats the TV" and she said "oh yeah".

jwellsy Mar 5, 2025
Some days my wife wakes up but stays in her dream. It's like there's no filter between a sleeping dreams and being awake. Even the shape of her face changes when she's in a delusional (waking dream) state. I can tell when the sundowning is about to start when she starts loosing control of her eyes. One eye will start wandering way off from the other. That signals that she's going into basically a dream state even though she's wide awake. When she wakes up like that, all I can do is sit with her, talk calmly and help her work through what ever she's dreaming. The goal is to get her calmed down enough to rest easy and fall back asleep.

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AliBoBali Mar 5, 2025
That has to be terrifying for everyone involved. Are there any prescribed anxiolytics? Maybe it's time. There's good reason why benzodiazepines aren't first-line medications for sleep and anxiety anymore. Still, towards the end of life, I think they have a purpose to maintain a peaceful, quieter mind—just my opinion.

PeggySue2020 Mar 4, 2025
Take away the phone or have her taken to the hospital where you then do the unsafe discharge thing.

Me, I’d go for the phpne

AlvaDeer Mar 4, 2025
I think that your mother's condition is deteriorating.
It is time to call her doctor to check in with next steps.

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