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badweeta Asked November 2022

My brother changed my mother's beneficiary to himself without anyone knowing, she died and he will not pay for her funeral expenses. Is this legal?

I had the policy turned over to the funeral home several years before her death. She has died but now he won't sign over the policy to pay for burial. This is happening in the state of New Jersey.

JoAnn29 Dec 2022
Please note the post is 4 weeks old and the OP never responded.

NeedHelpWithMom Dec 2022
I am so sorry for the loss of your mother.

You have received good feedback. Sending support your way.

This is so very sad, how awful!

Wishing you peace during this difficult time.

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JoAnn29 Nov 2022
If you turned over the policy to the funeral home, were they not made beneficiary? If so, brother had no right to change it even if POA. I am surprised the insurance company allowed it.

I agree, the funeral home will have to sue ur brother. There must be a contract or a Trust done at the time the policy was turned over.

When my Mom went on Medicaid, I had to cash in the two small policies she had. The money was placed in a funeral trust that the state Medicaid of NJ allowed.

Daughterof1930 Nov 2022
Nope, not legal. Let the funeral home fight it with him

gladimhere Nov 2022
Your brother cannot make himself beneficiary. If it appears that way, it is very likely illegal. Let the funeral home to after your brother since they were holding the policy. Do not, you personally, pay one dime of the cost!

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