What're the best incontinence products you've used?

Mom is peeing through her Always pullups. It's been such a wild ride with this issue. Before she was diagnosed with dementia in early 2022, had 2 appointments with urology that she canceled without my knowledge. This time I MADE her go. Severe incontinence of mixed variety. Due to dementia, can't do the kegels and remember to so urge suppression, etc.

Now she's wetting the bed at night and had accidents in the car. Using chux to protect car, bed, chairs.

But there's got to be a better pullup out there that she won't pee through. How about Dry Direct?

Thank you.