Hello,
A year ago my 74 year old father had a severe stroke. He was in the hospital for about two months and went to a rehab facility where he was suppose to get intense rehab. The first rehab facility didn’t do much for him. He then went to a short term place and received amazing help but could only stay for two weeks. He was then transferred to two other places. I need to get him out of the place where he is now it’s awful. I’m considering to just bring him home, but I need to know what resources are out there to help me. I’m 37 and have two small boys. I can take care of him but not 24 hours like he needs. I can pay for a few hours a day but not 24. What services are available to me? I’m in Illinois and I have nobody to turn to or get any help from.
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Senior Centers are also good sources of information.
And sometimes older elected representatives have brochures specifically for seniors, outlining resources available to them. I used to get these brochures at the Area Agency on Aging as well as local community senior expos, but the AAA expos in my area were D/C'ed, and the Senior Centers aren't holding them now b/c of the pandemic.
Your father's at an age that might have brought him into service during the Vietnam "War". Is he a Veteran? If so, see my answer in this post, and adapt it to your circumstances to see if the VA can help:
https://www.agingcare.com/questions/is-there-any-type-of-grant-for-a-80yr-old-retired-va-vet-for-home-modification-and-in-home-family-ca-464426.htm?orderby=recent&page=1
Good luck.
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This is the link for Chicago's Area Agency on Aging, which might be a useful place to start.
But where you really need to start is a clear-eyed, worked-out schedule of your father's care needs. What actually has to happen in any given 24 hour period for his wellbeing to be adequately taken care of?
If he's in a nursing home you're unhappy with, I can quite understand your instinct that he must be better off living with you - but that just ain't necessarily so. Why the two moves after the successful intensive rehab? And what are the main issues now?