I need to know how do I apply for assisted for caregiving for my mother?

I wish it were that easy. Is your mother on Medicaid. They sometimes can pay for some care. However, each state is different (these programs are federally funded but state administered). Try going to your state Web site. Type "aging" in the search and follow the local links for information. You will find the National Caregiver Support Program on the site (could have a different name). This can also be very useful. Good luck.
Carol