I am taking in my friend who was dumped in a nursing home. She is about 8 years older than me with copd and a cancer survivor. She has over 6 kids who don't want to be bothered with her. She worked all her life for them. Sad. I had two children. One died. The other is helping me care for my friend. Love each other. Life is short.
The friends and family part of this is idealistic and seems something for a bygone world. Aside from my husband, the only help I found was from professionals, especially the hospice team. Friends are runners.
There is no help from the government unless you are poor and on welfare, SSI, Medicaid, or you get zip. Dementia folks require "custodial care," not skilled care, and health insurance won't pay. Simple. Factual.
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