Sometimes sleep and caregiving don't seem to mix. With a packed schedule, being pulled in a million different directions by elderly parents, kids, jobs and all of the other things that constantly demand your attention, who has time to sleep? And when you do find the time, you toss and turn, your mind races and you lie awake. Does this sound familiar?
Experts say many people unknowingly establish "bad sleep habits" as part of their daily routine…and some of these practices could be keeping sleep away. A lot of things can come between you and a good night's sleep. You can, however, start establishing better habits so you can consistently get quality sleep.
Find your sleep number
First, figure out how many hours of sleep a night will make you feel rested in the morning. You know you're getting enough sleep if you don't feel sleepy during the day. Most adults need about 7 to 8 hours of sleep each night.
Don't try to make it up
If you aren't getting enough sleep, you can't "make it up" by sleeping late on the weekends, for instance. Once it's gone, it's gone. Sleeping longer on certain nights or frequent napping will only inhibit your ability to get a good night's rest the following night. By trying to make up sleep, you are sabotaging your chances of consistently getting a good night's sleep.
Get on a schedule…and stick to it
Staying up later on the weekends is equally as damaging as trying to make up sleep on the weekends. Our bodies need a schedule…a consistent routine. Try to go to bed and get up at about the same time every day, allowing for the amount of rest you calculated, even on weekends. If your bedtime is 10 p.m. during the week, stick to that same time on the weekends.
Get your parent on a schedule…and stick to it
Just like your body needs a routine, so does your elderly parent's. Set a schedule that you can stay close to every day. We set a routine and schedule for our kids as they were growing up, so try to do the same for elders. For kids and elders, a routine is comforting, predictable and encourages feelings of safety and relaxation. Make breakfast at about the same time every day. Schedule dinner, bath time, a relaxing pre-bed activity and bedtime for the same time every day.
Don't misuse your bed
Use your bed for two purposes only: sleep and sex. If you continually use the bed for activities that are not conducive to sleep, like reading, watching television or eating, you may be tempted to pick up a book or reach for the remote when you should be settling down for sleep.