Growing up my family was dysfunctional due to siblings being spoiled and allowed/enabled to be irresponsible. They are now grown irresponsible adults, still demanding handouts and acting entitled even though they didn’t and couldn’t help their own children. I slowly cut the relationships off as it was destroying me and my family. I thought that I could fix things for them and was sadly letting my own family go. Now I’m the bad guy and being gossiped about because they are miserable in the lives they created for themselves. I’m back for me and my family. Best thing I ever did after seeking therapy and grief support. Just wished that I did it a long time ago. Don’t waste a precious moment of life. I see happiness now. Thank you God, praise Jesus.