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I was born on Pierce Brosnan's 14th birthday.
I was diagnosed with a brain aneurysm, before 1yr.-old. I have clips on the aneurysm, made before 1980, that. Make having an MRI, potentially fatal.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tom_Sizemore#Death
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Grant_Imahara#Death_and_legacy
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Laura_Branigan#Death
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/John_Curulewski#Personal_life_and_death
That in turn, caused hydrocephalus
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tim_Conway#Illness_and_death
The six(needed) brain surgeries(13mos.-8yrs.)
Caused seizures
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Florence_Griffith_Joyner#Death
I was married(1992-2000)
I was engaged(2002-2007)
I was engaged, again(2007-2012)
My developmentally-disabled (ex)wife. Ran out of the bedroom, when. I had a severe seizure. No call to 911.
My first (ex)fiancee has Bipolar II, and. Probably Borderline Personality Disorder. When I had two severe seizures', in front of her. She didn't run, she called 911. We even lived 1,150mi. from my mother
While I didn't have any seizures' in front of my second (ex)fiance. Her OCD caused her to obsess about my health, which. Considering my (ex)wife's ignorance, was refreshing.
The title of this song: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Owner_of_a_Lonely_Heart
Is what I live with every day. My mother makes it worse. On top of the fact, that. My younger brother said something very cruel to my mother, at Christmas. Now she wonders, if. She will ever see him again.
A woman two years younger than me, that. I hoped to start a relationship with. Died suddenly in 2021 from Dialated Cardiomyopathy, that. Wasn't found until her autopsy.

Your mother is 85. You need to plan for your future. Maybe you should start by seeing an attorney who specializes in people with disabilities. Maybe such an attorney can point you in the direction you need to go.
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If you’re deemed to be of sound mind you can name whoever you choose as POA. Seen an attorney to do this. This same sound mind gives you the choice on where you live. If you’ve been found mentally incapacitated by a doctor then someone else is supposed to make decisions in your best interests, that’s what POA is for, something we all need. I wish you peace
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Are you independent and of sound mind? Then choose a new MPOA. If you are dependent on your mom, it is past time for you to figure out options for life after she dies - sooner rather than later.
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I am sorry for your numerous issues. Your post is somewhat confusing. Is there a main issue that is most troubling you need help with?
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