Father-in-law is in a wonderful assisted living facility. He recently lost his drivers license (we had already taken the keys a year ago) and is insisting on going home. I’m sure he would need 24 hr care but know he would just fire them. His home is 45 minutes away making it impossible to check in everyday. He is mad, throwing tantrums. We want him to be happy and safe. He will not listen to reason but he is still there enough to understand. Do we have to legally declare he is incompetent? Help.