I love her so much but since the house fire its all about her. 2 years ago Moms Dr. put her on 24 hr care due to mobility issues. Mothers mind is still pretty sharp at the age of 75 but she can not walk and due to way to much prednisone and osteoperosis coughing to hard broke her back last winter. I have put my life on hold, put myself into debt having to quit work (My Credit Score is Like a 500 now) to go home and care for her. My relationship with my male friend is almost obsolete at this point and i feel angry . Don't get me wrong I would never or have i ever even thought of hurting my mom but my words to her sometimes are like a knife. Our house burned on Feb. 1st of this year and she had nowhere near enough money to rebuild and due to zoning issues with the city we were not allowed to put a mobile home back on the property. I had 40,000.00 to work with . My car had blown up 2 weeks prior to the fire as well. So i bought a vehicle. After all the dr appts and things do not stop coming. We had to have transportation . She got angry about that. The gas it takes to house search and have you seen the prices on houses these days? Wow! I ended up talking her into a place in the Ragland,Al. which is just a little country town not much there. over from us which we got for 20,000.00 1 acre of land and a double wide that needed some work , (by the way she had been on that property since she was 2 years old. Her entire life was spent there) I told her we would have enough money to buy a piece of property and move the mobile home back into our city. Well repairs have way outweighed our finances and what we have is what we have. She told me she would kill herself if I moved her there! I mean really I have worked 10-14 hr days trying to get the repairs on that place done working like a man replacing flooring and hanging sheet rock etc. I payed to have block underpinning etc. to make the place nice and have achieved a very nice home for her with only 40,000.00. I guess what i'm getting at is she has not been happy with one thing i've done from the day the house burned. I have had to pay people to stay with her during the day while im repairing or house searching she said i have blew all of her money and I told her she was a selfish greedy old woman and she should be ashamed for telling people i waisted all her money and have been leaving her with strangers for days on end. I kinda thought that a vehicle, acre of land, a nice 4br 3 bath double wide with a firm foundation, brand new appliances and furniture well i thought i had done very well with her money. Maybe I am just burned out but i do know this....I NEED A BREAK from the guilt trips she keeps playing on me. I cry all the time and am miserable.