My amazing father passed away three days ago. I was his caregiver for 4 years with Altzheimers. I asked my sisters to help out with him over and over, and the answer was always NO. I put my life on hold to take care of my dad. I drove 40 miles every day to take care of him for 4 years. My sister lives 4 hours away and visited 2 times a year, thats it! No help at all, even after I begged. Well last week I called her and told her dad has a seizure and has 24 to a week to live. She came own with her 2 sick dogs, who are cages 23 hours a day, and bark constanty! Now my father passed away and she is now staying? My mom is 80 and is in amazing shape. We dont need her help now. So now my mom wants to travel, but my sister has two dogs and you can't travel with dogs. Now my mom feels obligated to stay home! I offered to drive my sister and her dgs hie today so mom can live her life after dad and she said no. She said you can travel without me. She knows my mom would never leave her home. My sister is now asking to travel with us? She has no money and no job! She is expecting my mom to pay for her to go to Alaska and Australia? Its sad she now wants to stay after dads gone, but refused to help when he was alive! How do i get her to leave and my mom to let her go?