I've been getting crappy aides from this new agency. I have a permanent aid 3 days a week and I recently changed to weekends to be by myself so all I need is 1 person for the other 2 days. I like someone I'm comfortable with and can trust. I'm a vampire I love staying up till early morning gaming so when I let them in I like going back to sleep. I expressed to agency last week I didn't like this aide. I have trouble understanding her, I had to rewash the dishes when she left food still in them. My bedroom she left untouched. I didn't think she would be back but they gave her permanent for the other 2 days. My question is when an aide comes I'm not comfortable with do I have to let them in or can I refuse and tell them send someone else? BTW, I'm in N.Y state.