My husbands grandfather just passed away,and his grandmother has progressive dementia. She refuses to go to a nursing home,and has stated that we are the only people she would allow to stay with her. We just bought our first house,and are currently renovating it. I am also 9 months pregnant with our first child. I am very upset,but my husband doesn't understand why this living arrangement would be hard with a newborn baby. We have the resources to bring someone in to stay wit her during the day,and we can check on her at night(we live less than a mile away). I really don't feel like I'm being selfish, wanting to move into our new house with our new baby. How do I convince my husband,as well as his grandmother,that although we are more than willing to help her as much as we can,it would be a bad idea moving in to her house? Additionally,she refuses to move out if her house,even to ours.