She got sick, didn’t want surgery, and her kids had her have the surgery anyway. They refused to listed to me, my husband, her son wouldn’t even let me talk. His siblings chose for her to have surgery, and now she’s suffering. They expect me to go to the hospital every other day and encourage her to get better and do physical therapy. This 90 year old woman needed to go to heaven, not be rescued by her children. I can’t stand to go to the hospital and watch them force her to do PT “to get better” when she isn’t going to get better. Had they not done the surgery, she could have been kept comfortable and passed away within about two weeks. I can’t sleep at night, I’m so angry. How do I forgive my husband and his siblings for not honoring mom’s wishes? I am afraid that after 40 years I am done with this family. I am so heart broken for what my Mom-in-law is having to go through. And so disappointed in my husband and his siblings.