How can I get past the anger, guilt that my husband and mother puts on me?

Hi chickengranny,

To get better, more detailed answers can you tell us a little more about your situation? Give us some specifics?

At the relatively young age of 59 why hasn't your husband recovered from his surgery that was 5 months ago? Does he have any other ailments?

What's going on with your mom? Is she ill?

Do you have siblings in the area? Other family?