My husband's parents live with us, and have for 13 years. They don't contribute financially to the household. MIL is 73, and has been a quadriplegic since 86. She is beginning to suffer from dementia. My FIL is 79, has had colon cancer, has a colostomy bag and suffered a stroke 2 yrs. ago. I am full time caregiver to my momma, and she receives hospice care due to severe dementia. My momma is an angel with attitude and gratitude, but I must admit, I do get tired. My in-laws everyday needs are becoming more than I can give. My sister in law was supposed to take her parents at the the first of the year, but then decided she couldn't. There are a total of 8 kids, but none contribute anything towards their care, or giving my husband and I a break, they barely even visit them. I am becoming bitter and angry at the other family members. It all falls on our shoulders. I am dealing with the day in and day out of the silly crazy outbursts from my mil..and I have had to pick up my fil in the yard when he fell and couldn't get up. My husband works late most days, so he deals with very little of this. I feel like I'm going to lose my mind. I have had a panic attack, and I find myself hiding in my room, after I have fulfilled my mom's care. Talking about this with my husband is moot..talking with the family is moot..any tips to deal with this? I can't go anywhere for extended length of time, as I am an only child, and have no one to care for my mom.