Dad's eyesight is bad- cannot read a book now. Neuropathy in hands cannot do some dexterous medicine things or cut veg. Has digestion upset regularly due to medical procedure in '20. These contribute to his mood swings. But he was similar when i was growing up. But this is becoming too much stress and strain on me. Been cargiving since 2017, also have a job. I'm considering moving out, sis lived here too and we constantly argued. I'm not sure what to do about him or leave him to my sister, (but she doesn't want to stay) he says he'll take care of himself. Don't know it i should leave for my mental health or continue to endure emotional abuse? What do other people do?
If so, what are his plans?
Basically, if he is not sufficiently independant to live alone, or arrange (& pay for) home help, he needs another plan.
If you want to help him find that plan, do so. If not, point him towards his Doctor for professionals to help instead.
So, yes - unless there are bigger reasons why your father can't live alone, I think you should move out and work with your sister to help your Dad get a proper, independent support structure in place.
Has your father ever lived alone?
I have not seen or spoken to an abusive father in over 17 years. Feels great.
Hope the same for you.