My dad is 86 I cared for him at home but can no longer continue. I found him a wonderful board/care home. The people are great and only have 6 guests. He came out of rehab into the home, he has only lived there 3 days and has been nothing but a problem. I afraid they are going to say they can't keep him. He cannot come back to my home as we are moving to a much smaller place. His problem now is he is refusing to use the toilet and pooping in bed. They do not deal with this. He can use the toilet. Is there a place or what do I do to put him in a safe place. I'm at the end of my rope his living with us was ruining my family. Are there emergency places in California for people like him???