Due to family riff 6 months ago I left my position taking care of my elderly mom and stepfather 80 and 86 they had every phone number to home health etc . I left making sure they had all the contacts they needed. My stepfather made it impossible for me to help my mom he guarded her like a hawk and I had limited access to help her in home, although I worked around it it was hard getting past him. I was turned into a care slave, actually they are both narcissistic and selfish, entitled lazy, well I got a call last week, my mom said stepfather in hospital with dementia delirium and she has a sprained wrist from trying to run down the driveway to yell at someone, without her walker, my brother took her out of the hospital with sprained wrist and convinced her to call me for help I reluctantly did to my error, because my brother wouldn't stay with her after 5 days of me being there it was back to toxicity with them, all brother cared about was taking their car, borrowing some money because he is in trouble, and entertaining my stepfathers kids at the nursing home, he told me he is moving in to the house his behavior was so off and quite scary I told my mom she said she doesn't care she will never turn her back on him I understand that, I could never live near them or with them, and I had a panic attack and left, now she is back in the hospital her husband is lost to dementia, I just can't however I'm power of atty what do I do?
Good luck to you.
You do a certified letter to both mom and stepdad at whatever address they each are located, that states you are resigning as POA. Also send it to the law firm that did their POA and will.