Sorry to say, but this site has been so depressing for a few days. I thought I'd ask an average, everyday question....to make us all feel a little more normal today.
I made Eggplant Lasagna, and my BIL and SIL are coming for dinner. They leave for Cali tomorrow to see their beautiful grand daughter.
Sorry, sometimes we just need some REGULAR conversation.......or at least THIS caregiver does.
I would have had two, call it grilled cheese and paint it with mayonnaise to grill it in the frying pan because it browns lightly golden that way. Yum.
Hi Jessebelle, Jeanne, Susan, and Cwillie- that's everyone on this page!
Love the sleep advice!
The "experts" suggest careers where you can take a night shift or work from home. I've been very lucky in that regard for the last decade or more, I have been able to work from home. What I really wonder about is how I ever managed to raise babies! I've known this problem since I was about 8 years old. It has gotten much worse in the last few years.
For what it is worth, most "experts" advise against going to bed before you are "sleepy" i.e. ready to sleep. (Being tired is not enough.) They say only sleep is sleep and lying in bed fretting about not sleeping does not contribute to health. But, hey, as a child I taught myself the squares table (2, 4, 9, 16, 25, 36 ...) lying awake in the dark, so it can't be all bad, right?
I would be up most of the night if I could. My best work hours are in the evening. The only problem with the "embrace it" thing is that the world would never adjust itself to my clock. I've always had to battle to go to bed so I could get up to go to work early the next morning. Even now I make myself get up at 7 or 8 so I don't drift in time. I do accept that I'm different than most, but it's hard to embrace it when lying in bed thinking "I'm not sleepy" each night. I usually drift off about 1 or 2 AM. A lot of times I make up for the lack of sleep with an afternoon nap. I guess this is what the doctor means about adapting life to it. (When I was working outside the home, it was very hard to stay awake some afternoons.)
I definitely need to maximize my use of the few afternoon hours I have available. The one time constant in my life is I need to make dinner to serve by 6:15 pm. That almost always includes a trip to the store. I shop regularly at Costco so I typically have staples on hand but I often need something fresh for dinner or something Costco doesn't sell. My new plan is to do that shopping after dinner, for tomorrow's dinner. Shift the afternoon work to later in the evening. (I was at my grocer's at 11:45 tonight. They are open until midnight -- worked fine.)
Also I read the recipe and pick out the tasks that could be done ahead. I just made the sauce for tomorrow's Chicken Pad Thai, sliced the scallions, and chopped the peanuts. Dinner will be much quicker with those things done. (I hope.)
I'm aiming to be able to put a decent and fresh dinner together even if I sleep late into the afternoon.
The usual expert advice for my sleep disorder is "Accept it. Embrace it. Adapt your life to it." I'm trying!
I'm about to start making gazpacho for tomorrow. Yes, it is 2:30 am, but this suits my sleep disorder! I'll probably make some kind of wraps to serve with the soup tomorrow.
Dinner tonight: sauteed veggies: japanese eggplant, cauliflower, broccoli, fennel, onion, fresh ginger and garlic: with a few tablespoons of Pad Thai sauce stirred in and everything simmering. Cooked fresh ear of corn, and fried up some crispy tofu squares. Just a few fresh figs for dessert.
Happy girl! Going for a walk around the senior housing to enjoy the flowers and maybe say hi to whover is out there.
Then, I'll call my mother and see if she had a nice day or whatever it was. If it wasn't wonderful, I don't mind. Mine was.
Along with the salad I used up the leftover Thai soup but giving everyone a cup in a cute little Fiesta bouillon bowl, sitting on a matching plate to hold crackers. Everyone liked that, too, and it was the right amount with a big salad.
I heard my son (a boarder) grumping about the nice fiesta bowl as he did the dishes. Look at how much room they take up! And they take up massive amounts of room in the cupboards! What was wrong with the Correlle ware we used to have, that stacks wonderfully and fits in the dishwasher. Grumble, grumble, grumble. I just smiled. He's the type who likes to grumble. Isn't it kind of me to give him just a handy and harmless topic?
Meanwhile, I LOVE my Fiesta dishes!
Not a common squash here. We eat zucchini and yellow crook-neck summer squashes.
My boarders were surprised that the soup was a simple Betty Crocker recipe!
I also like mushroom stroganoff Jeanne for those days when meat is just something you don't fancy for once.
As it is coming up to autumn (dare I even mention that in this heat) I really like marrow - now I think you might call it squash but I mean the long aren and white striped variety that is about a foot or more long and you wouldn't get your hands around the circumference unless you have huuuuuuuuuuuge man hands. I just cut the marrow in half de seed it fill with a good savoury ground mince, put the two halves back together wrap in foil and bake until the squash is tender - now that is yummy on a cold crisp autumn day
Can you tease him about it? "I thought I would make kangaroo steaks, but the butcher was out of them." "I haven't made licorice soup in a while. Would you like that?" Depends on his disposition since his stroke, I guess. I wouldn't do that unless it would make him laugh.
When my mother spent one long weekend a month with me, I made sure every meal was something she liked. (Not hard. She had a pretty adventurous appetite.) Do you try that, or is Dad always coming up with "dislikes" you never knew about?
I also wrote the menu of the day on Mom's whiteboard. Lunch: Tomato soup Dinner: Meatloaf, mashed potatoes, lemon pie. I made sure there was always dessert and that she knew what it was when to expect it. She liked looking forward to sweets!
Don't worry Sendme, I know you didn't mean any offense by your remark.
Nite Everyone!
With it I served stir-fry veggies. I love the Costco big frozen bag of these. Great variety of veggies. I couldn't find it for a few weeks and was Sooo glad to see it back last shopping trip.