I'm tired of cooking/preparing 3 meals a day. It's just the two of us but boy oh boy can that woman eat!! She stays slimish, I get fattish. It's bad enough I do everything here much less start making her one thing and me the other. At times I feel guilty when I buy her fast food cuz of the nutritional value....not to mention I eat it too.
[love that phase]
ff.... she is their mom. Do I really care if they get "upset" at her odd behavior? NO! Be a damn man. ooohhh.... I do think I like being a tad angry vs bawling like a baby. Wait.... this all makes my ears lay back! :D
your brothers dont have the guts that you do . like myself -- accept the blame . you need to get straight stupid with them . you need and deserve help .. every time i was ever taken advantage of in my life it was because i let it happen . the times i stood up for myself the opponent backpaddled .. those d*ckholes dont care if you have a nervous collapse . customers dont care if i lose . betsy didnt care if i had an accident or went to jail . weve got to stand up for ourselves . people are selfish .
When I get beyond tired, I turn into a giant crybaby... which is what I am right now. I somehow need to regroup. My problems are no worse than any one else who post or deal with this. Right now she's in the kitchen standing in front of the window telling her reflection to "come here". Usually it is me who she says this to. I haven't the strength right now to redirect her....which no longer works.
Cap, don't keep count of favors. Someone higher than you does that already.
I think I shall look into placing her somewhere for at least a week. How can I take care of her properly if I am almost at my end? Where are my brothers? 3 weeks ago my oldest said he'd be back to visit in a few days? Hate? I think I do.
your mom is fortunate to have such an intelligent caregiver on her side imo .
ive lived life on the behalf of others for so long i dont know how to live for myself alone .
has been a good day. Mama is sleeping ...a LOT...probably more than I'd like, but I guess that is better than her being restless. She seems very comfortable so that is a blessing. But it is odd how it can feel so lonely with so much going on in this house and because she is asleep, and so quiet, it just seems all the more quiet....so many memories this time of year anyway..and everything I do, reminds me of her and of us doing things together...but that means we have a lot of good memories too. She has these moments...where she sleeps so much..sometimes the entire day..and then will way up bright and alert. I guess it goes with the territory...
Need to get some writing done and work on a project for a new client. Picked up 2 new clients last week and one of them recommended me to a colleague of hers, so another potential new client may come on board next week. :-) If it all pans out, this winter will be far easier financially than last!
" football "
i need to build a root cellar and your watching football .
just kiddin with you ( kinda ) . dribble me about 250 of those block over here and kick a field goal with about 15 buckets of mortar and we' ll be on the same page .
nothing goes as planned . bought a 5 dollar thrift store blender that doesnt work . i might be able to coerce some life out of it but in the meantime im still making my coc nut creme pie . edna loves them and i can make an entire pie for the 3 . 50 a slice ive been paying at a restaurant . this blenderis fn with the wrong cat . ill spin it with a chainsaw if i have to .
I give my recommendations but my parents sometimes act like I don't know what I am talking about.... doesn't matter that I currently manage an office building and talk with tradespeople on a regular basis :P
I never had good luck with names on Angie's list, too many red flaps would pop up just on my initial telephone call, and some of the rave reviews I question because of past knowledge of poor workmanship or customer service which I heard throughout the years from others. Here in my area we have an independent consumer checklist, paid subscription, which is pretty spot on, I've had good luck finding tradespeople from that list :)