I'm tired of cooking/preparing 3 meals a day. It's just the two of us but boy oh boy can that woman eat!! She stays slimish, I get fattish. It's bad enough I do everything here much less start making her one thing and me the other. At times I feel guilty when I buy her fast food cuz of the nutritional value....not to mention I eat it too.
ACK! Ack, ack, ack. I'm tired.
It kind of opened my eyes to just how many people are out there who have been through the same thing. I enjoyed it because I didn't feel so mean afterwards, i.e., say I spoke a little louder or was looking for her, whatever.
Especially in restaurants.
Mom wanted a hearing aid that was small so that no one could see she was wearing one.... well, that small means it is difficult to open up to put a tiny battery into it... neither Mom nor Dad have the dexterity to handle something so small. And it looks like a piece is missing from the new hearing aid. Heaven knows where THAT is.
Plus Mom won't clean her ears to get some of the wax out, and going to the doctor to have her ears cleaned is a waste because she doesn't like the water that hot. Now trying to get Mom to use the ear wax drops that Dad uses, and were recommended by two of her doctors.
Then today Dad wanted to try a new hearing aid place for Mom.... guess he forgot that I had said I will take Mom to a new place this past summer, and if they can't help, then no more going to other places. Guess Mom's ears had expired.... [sigh]
Hope enjoy your cousin. she doesn't want you knocking yourself out for her. She wants to enjoy your company. Lots of cans of soup and sanwiches and Mrs Smith makes a good pie or strawberries and cream
dee i wore a hat all through menopause - but it was a riding helmet and had a very easy time - coincidence or maybe spending most of my time with big hairy creature made the difference. They never made smart remarks and were always pleased to see me.
Jadha how about taking Mom to a gynaecologist
Hope enjoy your cousin. she doesn't want you knocking yourself out for her. She wants to enjoy your company. Lots of cans of soup and sanwiches and Mrs Smith makes a good pie or strawberries and cream
dee i wore a hat all through menopause - but it was a riding helmet and had a very easy time - coincidence or maybe spending most of my time with big hairy creature made the difference. They never made smart remarks and were always pleased to see me.
Jadha how about taking Mom to a gynaecologist
I have major projects to do on this house this year (roof, etc), but once all the projects are done, I swear I'm going to hire a caregiver for a couple of days a week. Having that short break and coming back to this has just made me fully aware of how stressful it really is. This just sucks.
I thought it was funny. My mother said, "I don't have a temper. I'm real level headed," out of the blue. I'm glad I didn't have any liquid in my mouth, because it would have been all over the table. I told her that she did have a temper with me and that she bullies to get her way. She told me I was wrong, because she did NOT have a temper. I decided to let it go before she got mad. :-D
I wanted to say that if I called the doctor every time she sat there and dwelt on a symptom that I'd be calling every day. Sometimes I wish she would get up and live, instead of sitting there concentrating on obsessing on these little symptoms. I knew that feeling the pulse in our head was something everybody does occasionally. I brought her some water, thinking she might be dehydrated, and an Ativan. She is cured now.
We've been dealing with a lot of little symptom episodes this month. Then I remembered that it always happens in winter. It is not because she is confined to the dark house, because I haven't been able to get her out much for well over a year. There is just something about January that seems to set her off when it comes to self obsessing.
I hope Punxatawny Phil has some good news for us Monday. The winter has been mild, but I'm ready for symptom relief.
Both my Mom and I have issues with fillers/binders/coatings that are used in making prescription pills. There is one manufacturer we have no problem taking any of their pills. But my parent continue to use the mail-order pharmacy, and Mom continues to feel sick whenever a new batch of pills come in from a different manufacturer.
I have tried to talk to Dad about this but all he can think about is the fact that mail-order is cheaper.... good grief, it is ok for Mom to feel sick from the pills to save a few dollars?
Where is my helmet? Oh, it's out for repair :P
Ha, my dogs have steel stomachs apparently since there seems to be nothing food wise that bothers them. Like they have a choice ;) once upon a time last year I used to make their food from scratch...LOL, oh hell not anymore. I've been learning loads of lessons this past year... stop trying so hard, everyone will be just fine, except ME. Took me a long time to get it.
It doesn't matter how hard you try, nor how much you plan Susan, in these situations someone will inherently come along and change all your hard work. Lesson; they will not starve while you're gone. :) you feel better...
Did daughter's taxes today, need to do ours next. I don't mind doing them, it's just the time involved.