I'm tired of cooking/preparing 3 meals a day. It's just the two of us but boy oh boy can that woman eat!! She stays slimish, I get fattish. It's bad enough I do everything here much less start making her one thing and me the other. At times I feel guilty when I buy her fast food cuz of the nutritional value....not to mention I eat it too.
No casseroles were brought when my Mom died. In fact after a couple of days it seems like everyone went on with their lives. Easy for them since thats what they did when my Mom was alive.
CM did you just laugh and tell ex SO "Now you know how I feel tonight"
Why didn't he just call the cable company. That's probably what he will have to do anyway. Poor baby he will have to suffer probably not in silence if he is anything like my hubby. Does he have any heavy duty pain meds left from his surgery
why on earth do I need to tell him just about every time I need help in opening and closing the passenger side door of the truck? He just heads to the driver side, gets in and starts the vehicle with me standing outside.... [sigh].... believe me, if I could open the door myself I would if I felt I wouldn't fall out trying to close the door :P.
Not a whine today but I am just thrilled with the fantastic nurse and health aide that hospice has sent us. I am so grateful to have found these wonderful people.
You know this might sound pathetic but I know you are all non-judgemental people so here goes. When my Dad died when I was a little girl I took it real hard and ever since then I prayed every night that I would die before my Mom did. Well here I am and my Mom is gone so God obviously has other plans for me.
I guess what I am getting at is we are all doing our part to make our Moms and Dad's life easier in their final days and maybe that was God's purpose for my life. I don't know. But whatever his reasons are for not answering my prayer I guess I'll have to trust that and move on.
I'm sitting out on the deck because it seems the only place I can breathe. It's also the only place I feel normal. It is so confusing. ..this all stuff. ..I want her here, but she looks so sad. .most of the time. I try not to make her feel like I must have her stay because she has been such a fine and dignified lady. .butt how do you go on without them.
It's not men, Captain, it's just him.
You're quite right, Veronica, except it was Crown Derby and sister has walked off with it. My nice china is located at various student halls of residence round the country - don't know why I didn't learn not to lend it to children, or waste my breath reminding them that I did want it back and they weren't to forget to pack it - as is my full-length mirror that I am told was last sighted boarding a van for Nottingham but not to worry "Sals" was definitely going to return it after the long vac. Four years ago. And the good sherry is long gone, we're down to Ye Olde Cuttthroatte and none too much of that left in ye olde ship's decanter, either.
It's all going down in my Book of Grudge, don't you worry.
I would love a walled garden, sadly it's on the list of projects I didn't get round to - also they get quite snippy about planning permission round here, unless you're building an anaerobic digester in which case the Council falls on your neck. By coincidence, the one I hankered after as a model was attached to a boys' boarding house at my old school, a fourteenth to fifteenth century amalgam complete with espalier fruit trees and knot garden beds, lovingly maintained by the House Master who taught maths and - I was later told - was famous as well for his collection of homosexual pornography though I am happy to say that I never heard any reports of anything worse at the time, unless you count rather cruel satire. His passing away was reported on Facebook the other day, and I'm thinking of going to his funeral. If only to make sure I'm not the only one who's not there to make sure he's dead. May he rest in peace, I owe him if nothing else a clear grasp of inflation and the money supply.
Progress today: got rid of a double bed, two boxes of bric-a-brac and a chest of drawers I've always detested to a local charity, plus three bags of warm clothes to the Salvation Army. On the downside, having moved the wardrobe, I got into the cupboard behind it and now have a menagerie of Beanie Babies and cuddly penguins dotted forlornly around the room, looking reproachful. Why couldn't my mother collect First Editions like anyone else?
Can you put the wardrobe in the dining room add some shelves and put your Royal Dalton with the hand painted violets in there. Don't forget the silver tea set and the stiffly starched tablecloths with the hand crocheted lace edging. That should look pretty impressive when you are showing the house. Maybe ex SO can stand by it with the doors open and serenade the buyers with "The Saints...........Oh don't forget the crystal decanter with the best sherry in it invitingly displayed with a couple of glasses. Keep the ex's paws off the sherry well till he has cooked dinner. See I can totally visualize your house. We had an old farmhouse with bricks dating back to 1700, even had a carriage house and a couple of stalls. is your garden walled. It was always my dream to have one of those, although my in laws had one in Cornwall.
Tex, has your Mom been evaluated by a neurologist for her behavior and what might be causing outbursts of this type?
My whine today is that I haven't received any new notifications from Agingcare when there are new posts for about 3 days now....yet I see there have been dozens of new posts. Hmmmmm...
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[thinks: "off with her head..!"]
My husband is an aircraft flight engineer and they have to renew their "Human Factors training' regularly. If they have to do that you would think medical staff would to. At the very least their bedside manner.