I'm tired of cooking/preparing 3 meals a day. It's just the two of us but boy oh boy can that woman eat!! She stays slimish, I get fattish. It's bad enough I do everything here much less start making her one thing and me the other. At times I feel guilty when I buy her fast food cuz of the nutritional value....not to mention I eat it too.
I will do whatever I can to have my Dad happy in his last days. If paying my niece’s tuition bill is the price for my dad to see his only son and granddaughter , that’s what I will pay. If you disapprove, that’s your privilege.
Maybe they will reschedule for another time. I hate seeing your dad disappointed. He has a huge heart.
Sorry to hear about your brother canceling the visit. Feel bad for your dad and hope he visits him real soon. You are such a good daughter and so caring toward your dad. I am happy he has you in his life.
I hope that they have enough class to show up and show some gratitude for what he did.
I've still been thinking about your dad and praying for the family after your mom passed away and was so glad when he came to stay with all of you now because I can see it has helped him tremendously with the grieving process.
I have been reading everything that has transpired with your brother and his daughter (from the sidelines) and felt terrible and so sad at how the first visit went (after all the years he's been out of the picture) especially for your dad who's already hurting enough.
I'm so happy that your brother is there today spending time with your dad in the backyard and helping you make apple butter. That was a treat when I was growing up. Hearing your dad laugh must be music to your ears. You've been so good at how you've handled the whole situation - doing it all for your dad's sake!
In this moment, it seems like a family again. I know it will take a lot more than that but, it has to start somewhere.
I hope you all have a great day continuing to get reacquainted with one another!
He’s been a big help today. He and my dad seem to have gotten along great. And my brother is going to spend the night at our house. It’s the house we grew up in. My brother was amazed that his room had not been changed much since he left 52 years ago. Mom never wanted to get rid of his stuff. We’ve painted and replaced draperies. But his pictures and quilts our grandma made him are still there.
Funniest was he came downstairs with a pair of his jeans from high school on. They still fit. Wish I could still zip my jeans from high school up. Of course he hasn’t had two babies.
I'm really happy for all of you - maybe the Prodigal son has come home!
It brings tears to my eyes - but, this time good ones!
I don’t know your father but I admire him because of your lovely description of him.
Your father deserves to have his dreams fulfilled and I am certainly glad that he has had a positive reconnection.
Your niece sounds sweet. I’m sure that your dad will profoundly effect his granddaughter’s life.
Your father knows what is truly important in life. People who care about others are great leaders. Your father is an inspiration to others.
Your dad doesn’t have a big ego. He is passing the torch into capable hands. He obviously feels that his granddaughter is worth investing in. I’m sure that she is.
Your dad is a sweetheart! I think that your brother will start to appreciate him. Better late than never, right?
Extremely happy for all of you!
Oh, Bridger
I think it’s awesome that you support your father and his wishes and are welcoming to your estranged brother.
It’s wonderful to see a family without vengeance in their hearts from past hurt.
Can’t say that I am surprised that you are forgiving. Obviously you had a wonderful teacher, your dad.
Setting examples are the best way to teach. Your dad did that very well.
Take care..
I told him I had no idea about mom. She never said much about him. I think she gave up years ago. She got frustrated with dad and I because we kept trying to get in touch with him.
You know what I think? Your mom’s prayers from heaven has caused the change of heart with your brother.
I truly believe she knows what is going on and is pleased. Your mom is in a place that is filled with love. She has no hard feelings about your brother.
I'm relieved to hear you haven't suffered an overwhelming urge to run up trees or, er, "wash your bottom."
Is anyone considering changing the state name to Hurricane? Seems quite appropriate, unfortunately.
I can't even conceive how difficult it is to face so many disasters one right after another.